LOUISVILLE, Ky. (WDRB) -- Â Finally taking the plunge and moving out of your parents' home? Follow these steps to make sure you're financially prepared for independence.
Mark Lamkin from Lamkin Wealth Management says moving out of your parents' house just may be the most important step you take toward independence. You can finally live by your own rules, without curfews or restrictions, and take care of responsibilities on your own schedule and in your own way. Â However, as appealing as this may sound, the freedom of living on your own comes with great responsibility, financial and otherwise. Before you take this bold step, make sure you're fully prepared for what lies ahead.
How to Prepare to Live on Your Own:
1. Educate Yourself on Living Expenses
Living on your own involves more than paying rent or a mortgage each month. Water, electricity, gas, cable, and phone services are just a handful of expenses you may not immediately think of when contemplating the big move. Â In addition, you need to consider renters' insurance, security deposits, grocery shopping, and association fees - plus personal expenses, such as student loans, auto loans, and any credit card debt you may have built up in college. If you're not accustomed to paying your own way and don't sufficiently educate yourself on the costs of living alone, you may find yourself biting off more than you can chew.
2. Set Up a Budget
Don't know where to start? Â Ask your parents to show you every single bill they pay each month!
While you're still living at home, make an effort to familiarize yourself with common household expenses. How much do your parents pay for utility services every month? How about groceries, transportation, and cable? Your own expenses may be lower if you move into a smaller home and have only yourself to provide for, but this can still provide a valuable basis for an estimate. Â When you have all these numbers in hand, write out a prospective personal budget for yourself to get a better sense of what you can afford on your own. Determine how much income you're going to need for various insurances, gasoline, food, and other personal expenses. Are you going to have to start making additional payments, such as student loan payments, or are you going to need to buy or lease a car? When you answer all these questions and have all the appropriate numbers in hand, you can get a better sense of what you're going to be able to afford.
3. Pay Rent to Your Parents
Adjusting to life on your own is difficult if you've never paid a bill. If your parents are generous and don't ask for rent, consider yourself lucky - but realize that this will not prepare you for the real world. Therefore, offer to contribute. If your parents refuse to accept a rent check, offer to pay your own auto insurance, or give them money toward utilities or cable. Make them hold you accountable and perhaps they may even give this back as a down payment for your first home or apartment
By assuming responsibilities one at a time while still living at home, you can slowly acclimate yourself to financial independence. And if your parents won't take any money from you, put what you would have given them toward your savings. You can eventually use this money for a security deposit and first and last months' rent for your own home.
4. Build an Emergency Cushion
When bearing the burden of all household expenses on your own, disposable income can quickly become a thing of the past, and saving money is nearly impossible - at least in the beginning. While you still have a surplus income, put it toward a high-yield savings account to help your money grow at a quicker rate. If you contribute 10% of your paycheck each month, you can build up a nice cushion to rely on in case you lose a job, incur a medical expense, or encounter some other unexpected financial burden.
Remember, if you want true independence, you can't rely on your parents as a safety net - you have to create one for yourself.
5. Good Credit History
If you're not careful, debt can hinder your financial growth for years. Use your time at mom and dad's to pay yours off - paying particular attention to high-interest debt, such as your credit cards - and resolve not to venture out on your own until that weight is cut loose. For lower-interest debts such as student loans, it's okay to pay the minimum for a while as you establish yourself (and pay off higher debt). Chances are your student loan interest rate is just slightly higher than inflation and therefore not costing you much to maintain.
It's a lot easier to eliminate debt when you have only a few monthly expenses, so do as much as you can before you're on your own.
Getting an apartment with no credit history can be challenging, and landlords frequently ask that parents cosign a lease for first-time tenants. However, you can avoid this roadblock by establishing a credit history before moving out on your own. Apply for a secured credit card or a retail charge card, which can be easy with no credit history. Make a charge, pay it off immediately, and then pocket the card. Then, unless you've proven to yourself that you're 100% financially responsible, don't touch it - a card in good standing is enough to establish good credit. You can also take out a federal student loan and make timely payments on it to slowly build a good credit score.
Lamkin Wealth Management
5151 Jefferson Blvd., Suite 102
or
901 Lily Creek Drive Ste. 102
office: 502-961-6550 OfficeÂ
toll free: 866-961-6550
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Securities and advisory services offered through LPL Financial, a registered investment advisor, Member SIPC (sipc.org). For a list of states where Mark is registered to conduct business please visit www.lamkinwealth.com   Â
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